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Do Princesses Wear Hiking Boots?

By Nina East · Comments (0)
Monday, October 18th, 2010

Do Princesses wear hiking boots?

You betcha!

This book is one in a series of girl-empowerment books by Carmela LaVigna Coyle, designed to let little girls know that yes, indeedy, princesses can do whatever they please, and that being a princess has nothing to do with outside trappings, but with inside feelings.  Feelings of goodness and worthiness, mind you – not entitlement, beauty or putting on airs.

hikingboots Do Princesses Wear Hiking Boots? Cole says she was inspired to write this book after her daughter asked her the title question.  It is written for pre-school level, so be prepared for the cute, whimsical rhyming. The text consists of a mother’s rhymed answers to her daughter’s questions about princesses, such as, “When princesses laugh, do they sometimes snort?  They have manners of every sort.”

What’s great about these stories is that they expand the idea of what it means to be completely and fully all of who you are – that self-esteem is based on accepting and loving you exactly as you are – the same message inherent in everything here at PersonalGrowthPrincess.com. Considering how many messages girls (and women) get about not being good enough, not being worthy, and, of course, that being pretty is what counts, this book is a wonderful counter-message.

Here’s a snippet from Carmela LaVigna Coyle’s biography:

“Hmmmm. An uncommon princess!? What’s that all about… well it’s about YOU!! And who you are on the inside. I wrote my first “published” book for my daughter Annie after she asked me the title question. “Do princesses wear hiking boots?” We were getting ready to go on a hike in the Rocky’s when she plopped down next to me wearing denim coveralls, a pink sparkling tutu, an old t-shirt, mismatching socks and a crown askew on her head. Before I could answer her question, she fired a second one; “Do princesses have to brush their teeth?” and then a third. (Can you believe it? Hand-fed a storybook title by a four-year-old? Happens all the time, I am told.) Quickly I discovered that she was trying to learn if she, herself, could possibly qualify as a princess.

The princess in my princess series climb trees, ride bikes-fast, plays soccer, dresses up (on occasion,) does chores, and loves to be outside in nature. Sound familiar? A princess doesn’t have to be fluffy and frilly to be the real deal… unless, of course, you like that sort of thing. Anything goes, my dears. “…A princess is a place in your heart.” And the best part? You decide what that is! Or not!”

I’m always drawn to these books, in part because of all the anti-princess messages I heard growing up (along with the “not yet worthy” ones), but also because of how they can impact grown women as well. Some members of Personal Growth Princess tell me that initially they were not drawn to the name of the program, because of the word “princess”, but once they read more about it and understood they were reacting from the negative conditioning they received as young girls, they jump on board. There’s something liberating about being able to think “princess” without thinking “wimpy”.

There are other books in the series, which seems to have become a runaway hit: Do Princesses Really Kiss Frogs? and Do Princesses Scrape Their Knees? and other titles.  The rumors are the latest book in the series, Do Princesses Have Best Friends Forever?, will be out near the end of the year.

What messages did you receive about who you were as a child? And was it OK to be interested in princesses? Could you kick butt and be girly?

Leave a comment below and share your thoughts.

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Categories : 5-Minute Book Reviews, Princess Stories, Self-Esteem
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The Checklist Manifesto – how to get things right [book review]

By Nina East · Comments (2)
Tuesday, October 12th, 2010

Are you a list maker? If so, you already know how helpful – as well as how distracting – they can be. If you aren’t a list maker, chances are you think they are a waste of time at best, and the sign of an empty life at worst.

I admit it – I’m a list maker. I’ve even been known to add something to my list that I just completed, just for the pleasure I get from marking it off. That’s a perfect example of how lists can become distracting.

Of course, that’s not the kind of list Atul Gawande is talking about in The Checklist Manifesto – How To Get Things Right. A “checklist” is not the same thing as a “to do” list. A checklist is used for routine or repetitive tasks, where getting it right makes a difference.

checklistmanifesto1 The Checklist Manifesto   how to get things right [book review]The Checklist Manifesto is a scientific examination of how checklists can help. Gawande is a surgeon, so he was looking specifically at how using checklists for medical procedures or processes could make a difference in terms of accuracy and care. He shares some rather remarkable statistics – such as how implementing a checklist for one routine procedure in one hospital reduced infection rates from 11% to 0%, saving 8 lives and $2 million in costs.

OK, so it makes sense to use checklists in order to get things right when you’re talking about people’s lives, right? You can see how it would be helpful to use them in medicine, fire prevention, airline pre-flight checks, etc.

But what about for regular people living regular lives? Can using checklists actually make enough of a difference to matter? Are there really noticeable benefits to using checklists? Read More→

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Categories : 5-Minute Book Reviews, Goals, Mindfulness, SendOutCards, Time Management
Tags : Atul Gawande, getting things done, personal growth princess, sendoutcards, the checklist manifesto

The Tipping Point – How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference [Book Review]

By Nina East · Comments (0)
Tuesday, June 29th, 2010

This book review post is provided by guest reviewer Cheryl A. Chatfield, Ph. D.

The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make A Big Difference

by Malcolm GladwellTippingPoint The Tipping Point   How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference [Book Review]
Back Bay Books (2002)
304 pages

“We must reframe the way we think about the world.” Gladwell’s claim, made in this book published in 2000 is still valid, and perhaps even more so today. He has written other books since, but these ideas deserve a second viewing. Gladwell states that ideas products, messages and behavior spread like viruses do – as epidemics. He poses three agents of change:

1. Law of the Few

A tiny percentage of people do most of the work. This relates to the old 80/20 rule, that 80 percent of the work is done by 20 percent of the people. He describes Connectors, Mavens and Salespeople as the groups to find if hoping to succeed with a new idea, product, message or behavior. The Connectors are the ones that know everyone else; The Mavens believe in the new information; and the Salespeople, obviously, can sell that new idea to others.

2. Stickiness

The content of the message must be memorable and it must be able to create change and spur action. This can be the most difficult of the three agents of change, since not all ideas are important enough to spur others into action. This area that requires serious review before going ahead with a new idea. What makes the new idea, product, message or behavior memorable? How will it create change? What action is it suggesting?

This “stickiness” applies to any new idea, whether it is in science, health or any other type of business, or a spiritual setting. The same rules apply since people are the same, whatever the message.

3. Power of Context

Gladwell claims that behavior is a function of social context. Epidemics are sensitive to the conditions and circumstances of the times and places in which they occur. An epidemic can be tipped by the smallest detail of the immediate environment. That is an important statement. The smallest detail can affect any new idea or product. This is particularly true today, in a time of economic distress, when certain messages will be effective that would not have been listened to years ago.

Gladwell also comments on a Rule of 150, which refers to the fact that for a new idea to be effective, the group may be as small as 150. The point is that it doesn’t take a large group to initially begin a new idea. The internet today makes this rule even more effective. The internet also reinforces the fact that ideas do spread like viruses.

Finding and reaching the right people who have social power and understanding the social environment, one can shape the presentation of new information to improve its “stickiness.” Understanding the importance of the size of the group furthers improves its receptivity.

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Cheryl A. Chatfield, Ph. D. invites you to visit her nonprofit organization at http://NottInstitute.org to sign up for the free monthly Practical Spirituality Newsletter and receive a complimentary copy of “Five Must-Read Books for 2010.”

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Lift – Becoming a Positive Force in Any Situation [Book Review]

By Nina East · Comments (2)
Friday, June 18th, 2010

This 5-Minute Book Review is provided by guest reviewer Gloria DeGaetano.

Lift: Becoming a Positive Force in Any Situation

By Ryan W. Quinn and Robert E. Quinn Lift Lift   Becoming a Positive Force in Any Situation [Book Review]
Berrett-Koehler Publishers 2009
254 pages
Hardcover & Kindle versions

After reading Robert E. Quinn’s book, Change the World: How Ordinary People Can Achieve Extraordinary Results, I thought to myself, “This man wants us all to become saints!” Why? Because Change the World describes eight “seed principles” that if taken seriously and acted upon naturally leads to a course of compassionate action on behalf of others.

Robert Quinnn’s new book, Lift: Becoming a Positive Force in Any Situation, which he co-authored with his son Ryan Quinn, an assistant professor at the University of Virginia’s Darden’s School of Business, deepens that journey toward “sainthood.” Lift reports a way for us to become positive change agents immediately in any situation we encounter by asking ourselves four basic questions: 1) What result do I want to create? 2) What would my story be if I were living the values I expect of others? 3) How do others feel about this situation? 4) What are three (or four or five) strategies I could use to accomplish my purpose for this situation?

Robert Quinn, who holds the Margaret Tracy Collegiate Professorship at the University of Michigan and is professor of management and organization in the Ross School of Business, has authored sixteen books. Considered an innovative thinker and authority on positive change processes, he developed ACT-Advanced Change Theory-which the Parent Coaching Institute uses as integral to our successful parent coaching model. The four questions discussed and promoted in Lift, provide a foundational focus for applying ACT more thoroughly in daily activities when the business of life can often interfere with our good intentions to be kind, thoughtful, or proactive.

How do people change and how do they do it deeply and sustainably in order to catalyze transformative societal changes? is a question that captures our human longing to make a positive difference. Robert Quinn’s books can be counted on to address and effectively answer this question. Now in Lift, with his son Ryan, the two provide a practical framework for keeping that longing alive and fulfilled. Lift is defined as a “psychological state in which a person is purpose-centered, internally directed, other-focused, and externally open.” This dynamic internal state keeps us “lifted” thereby making us reliable lift-ers of others. And soon, as the authors demonstrate, our sphere of influence infuses with positivity and possibility-we natural become role models for others as we enthusiastically undertake the self-discipline necessary to monitor and adjust our psychological states. “As within, so without,” never seemed truer as I poured over the wisdom in this book.

The book begins with an informative overview of positive influence and the psychological state. Read More→

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The Trophy Effect [Book Review]

By Nina East · Comments (0)
Wednesday, June 16th, 2010

The Trophy Effect The Trophy Effect [Book Review]
Motivational Press, Inc. (2010)
216 pages (paperback)

NOTE: The book is being featured in a Best-Seller campaign on Wednesday, June 16th. When you purchase the book from Amazon.com during this campaign  you will receive thousands of dollars worth of free gifts from some of Michael’s closest associates.
To participate, purchase the book at Amazon, then go to The Trophy Effect, enter your purchase code and you’ll be given access to all the bonuses.

Until you know what the trophy effect is, you might think the title is referring to how people are striving for more and more achievements, at the expense of fulfillment. At least that’s what I thought it would be about before I read it.The Trophy Effect, by Michael Nitti, actually gets the the heart of the reason people focus on their shortcomings rather than on their strengths and accomplishments.

The trophy effect is subconscious and innate, meaning that it originates in the mind, and you generally aren’t even aware of it. That’s what makes it so hazardous. It is a way of thinking and reacting that leads us to give up on things, magnifying feelings of doubt rather than hope.

The real clincher is that we usually don’t realize it is going on, which means we don’t realize it’s something we have control over. That’s because it is tied to our survival instinct, and it takes some serious effort – or at least consistent action – to override an instinct that is designed to help us survive the dangers in the world, whether they be real dangers – such as a speeding car jumping the curb coming right at us – or more imagined dangers – the fear of embarrassment, of not being good enough.

The Trophy Effect walks you through a process that helps you understand that your mind is not your self, and how the effect has been playing out in your life.

Not only did I read the book, I also had the privilege of a one-on-one “trophy effect” session with Michael Nitti.

I’ve obviously been around the personal growth block a time or two, so it’s hard to impress me. Most books are a new perspective on something else we’ve tried before (that’s why the book selections at Personal Growth Princess are so powerful – they are new and unique). And, of course, when I saw the title of the book, I thought I knew what I was going to learn.

I was wrong.

In his book, Michael Nitti leads you through, in clear, colorful detail, what kind of trophies you are really collecting, and why they simply serve to increase your self-doubt. What you learn seems counter-intuitive at first, but he aptly helps you see the logic behind it, and then you get to see and feel firsthand what the effect has been.

Of course, for the book to be fully effective, you need to be honest with yourself and be willing to try on a new perspective. And you will want to do the exercises. It’s like getting a blueprint for destroying self-doubt, but you actually have to use the blueprint as you build – otherwise you’re back to the same catty-whompas state of letting your mind rule your life.

I have to admiit, the work I did from the book and with Michael was so intriguingely powerful that I selected The Trophy Effect as the July feature book for members of Personal Growth Princess.
(Not a member? Read more about the benefits of membership.) Not only did I feel different immediately, the difference has stayed with me and continued to expand over the last several weeks. It’s not without effort, but the reasoning behind the trophy effect is so sound that your mind will be convinced.

I strongly recommend reading this book – or joining Personal Growth Princess to receive the summary and a special in-depth interview with the author on July 1.

Remember, The Trophy Effect is being featured in a Best-Seller campaign on Wednesday, June 16th. When you purchase the book from Amazon.com during this campaign  you will receive thousands of dollars worth of free gifts from some of Michael’s closest associates.
To participate, purchase the book at Amazon, then go to The Trophy Effect, enter your purchase code and you’ll be given access to all the bonuses.

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You Are A Spirit [Book Review]

By Nina East · Comments (0)
Tuesday, May 18th, 2010

You Are A Spirit: Nine Steps to Heaven on Earth, co-authored by Kayhan Ghodsi and Stephanie Gunning (one of our Fairy Godmothers), has just been published by Yaas Press. In fact, Wednesday, May 19th, is the official launch of the book.

This is a simple, yet deep, guide to help you become more aware of who you really are – more than just a physical body existing here on earth. You are more than what you think you are – you are a spirit, and your body allows you to exist and experience in the physical realm. For those who are more “new age” minded, you will likely have the experience of thinking “Ah, yes, this makes perfect sense now.” Fbookcover You Are A Spirit [Book Review]or others, the stretch will be bigger. The beauty in the book is that it is not dogmatic, nor are you expected to believe anything the authors say. In fact, they encourage you not to take their word for it, but to check it out for yourself.

Each of the nine steps (such as “You are Perfect in the Present”, “You Are Not Your Body”, “You Can Choose Joy”) requires you to stretch and consider possibilities or ideas you may not have thought of before. Each step ends with a meditation. The simplicity of the meditations make them great for the beginner who is not familiar with meditation or may be a bit intimidated by it, but don’t let the apparent simplicity lull you into thinking they are “easy” or that nothing is happening.

In the first step, “You Are A Creator”, the authors state:

Here’s the secret to living as a spirit in a body: If you consider that you are the creator of your life – in other words, the cause, rather than the effect of your experiences – just by considering this idea, your life changes.

(This statement connects with how Kim Marcille Romaner talks about the role of the observer in scientific experiments – that the act of observing automatically affects the outcome. See the book summary for The Science of Making Things Happen in the members area for the full story, or read the post about The Science of Making Things Happen and the Dynamic Opportunity Model.)

There is a lot of hype out there about being in the “now”, yet rarely are we given any ways to experience this in a way that make sense to the average person. After all, if you haven’t been living in the “now”, how would you know how to do it? That is where I found this book to be most valuable.

The authors give examples of how to know you are not living in the present moment, such as when you are worrying (the future) or ruminating (the past). By projecting yourself into the past or future, you are disconnecting with the present moment, and disconnecting from your ability to create your reality.

The meditations accompanying each step not only show you how to bring your awareness into the present moment in ways you can relate, they are designed so that you actually experience it right then, in the moment. Of course, as with all meditation, the authors remind you that it is practice over time that will make it easier and more automatic.

The ultimate message of the book is to release judgment and trust yourself to be guided in your choices and actions – because after all, you, as a spirit, are the one doing the guiding. When you realize this, you realize you can experience heaven on earth because you will experience certainty and absolute faith, and because you never really left heaven in the first place.

Remember that Wednesday, May 19, 2010 is the official launch of the book. To accompany the launch are special bonus offerings, so be sure to grab yours. You can also view the video trailer, and sign up for a free teleseminar being offered today, May 18th.

Leave a comment below and let me know what you think of the book. And remember to grab your bonuses if/when you purchase You Are A Spirit.

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What the Dynamic Opportunity Model has to do with the Science of Making Things Happen

By Nina East · Comments (0)
Monday, May 17th, 2010

Last week I posted an article about the Dynamic Opportunity Model (used with permission from CoachVille). dynamicthumb What the Dynamic Opportunity Model has to do with the Science of Making Things Happen
This is a powerful model for transforming a “problem” into an “opportunity”. It is simple, though not necessarily easy, but only because most of us are not very practiced at it.

Science What the Dynamic Opportunity Model has to do with the Science of Making Things HappenWhat’s particularly intriguing is how this model ties in with the featured book summary for May, The Science of Making Things Happen by Kim Marcille Romaner.

One of the key elements in the Dynamic Opportunity Model is learning to be an observer. Sometimes we try to hard to figure something out, focusing on what’s not working and why it’s not working, that we neglect to see what is really there.

Likewise, the role of observer is key to the science of making things happen. Kim talks about how the act of observing directly affects what happens to the thing or person being observed, the actual activity of the observed. She talks about it in scientific terms, using experiments with berylium ions (subatomic particles), and then relates it to daily life at the human level. This is called the Zeno Effect. (Members, see pages 10-11 of your book summary for the full explanation).

What Romaner found is that when you measure the wrong benchmarks, Read More→

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Tags : CoachVille, dynamic opportunity model, Inverse Zeno Effect, Kim Romaner, The Science of Making Things Happen, transformation

Do More Great Work – Michael Bungay Stanier [video] [Book Review]

By Nina East · Comments (0)
Tuesday, February 9th, 2010

Michael Bungay Stanier, author of Find Your Great Work, has written another book – Do More Great Work. As you would expect, he has a way of capturing exactly what you and your clients are thinking about busy work and great work.

His message is: Stop The Busywork!

We’ve all been there, right? You’re up to your eyeballs answering email, returning phone calls, attending meetings, scrambling to get things done. But when did being busy become a measure of success?

Here’s a video he created to share a little about the new book.
(Secretly  I have video-envy when it comes to Michael’s videos. They are truly great!)

You can see this and the rest of Michael’s Possibility Virus resources on his website.

Let me know what you think of the video – and the books – in your comments below. I’m especially curious to know how you might use this in your own work.

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It’s Not That I’m Bitter [Book Review]

By Nina East · Comments (0)
Friday, January 22nd, 2010

This 5-Minute Personal Growth Book Review was submitted by guest reviewer, Gini Cunningham.

Its Not That I'm Bitter . . .: Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying About Visible Panty Lines and Conquered the World Its Not That Im Bitter [Book Review] is a great one if you are ready for a female dose of reality. Regina Barreca takes the oddest of feminine concerns and transforms them into hysterical scenes of humor. She re-teaches us that laughing is a cure for most of our ills and foibles.

bitter Its Not That Im Bitter [Book Review] Its Not That Im Bitter [Book Review]From problems with weight and purchasing an appropriate swimsuit to advertisements that trick us into believing that this special product will produce amazingly glamorous results, Barreca forces readers to examine the quirks and thrills of being a woman. A gift displayed in the author’s writing is guiding the reader from fits of laughter to quiet reflection. These still moments are also filled with humor but allow the reader to calmly reflect on serious topics of life like unfairness at work or dealing with those who dislike our hard work and dedication.

This is the perfect book club book, best friends read, or mother/daughter share. As my daughter and I read it together sitting side-by-side during our girls retreat, we laughed, we paused in thought, and we discussed the key points of each chapter with enthusiastic dialogue and thoughtful insight. Why is it that women can laugh so hard at themselves while also recognizing the truth and reality behind each peal?

It would be interesting to discuss Its Not That I'm Bitter . . .: Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying About Visible Panty Lines and Conquered the World Its Not That Im Bitter [Book Review] with a group of men. Would they find the book funny or too sarcastic and caustic for their liking? Would they be able to laugh at themselves with the same gusto that women are able to or would they find it biting and bitchy? Reading about women and thinking about our unique character traits, astute perspective, and our ability to dissect and re-dissect each event of life has made me appreciate the greatness of being female. This book puts all of those thoughts into words.

Quotable Quotes from the book include titles of chapters such as “What Do You Mean, ‘Lose Weight Fats?’” or “Why Is Nostalgia Not Like It Used to Be?” These give you an idea of the humor presented in the book. Each chapter quickly envelops the reader in the realness of the day along with the absurdity of it too. This is a great book to share with friends and co-workers, with significant people you know who need to laugh at the oddity of life.

Gina Barecca is also a master with words. If you are looking for twists with language, enriching vocabulary, and appreciating past knowledge as it builds to current understanding, you will be rewarded through the carefully constructed sentences and intriguing scenarios. The play with words and intertwining events of history are enriching. Writers seeking to enlighten their own craft will benefit from reading this book.

Warning: If you find no humor in life or if you think toying with “womenness” is corrupt and unconscionable, skip this read. If laughing about chin hairs and screeching over the unnecessary worry about others while failing to stick up for yourself (as you shiver or sweat thorough a conference), you will enjoy each word, each phrase, and each page of this easy-read, amusing book.

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Gini Cunningham is an educational consultant,  free lance writer,  life coach, and professional development presenter.

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BURNING BRIGHT – Extraordinary Women of KwaZulu-Natal [Book Review]

By Nina East · Comments (0)
Thursday, January 21st, 2010

This 5-Minute Personal Growth Book Review was submitted by guest reviewer, Helgaard Botha.

This wonderful book is about celebrating the extraordinary women who hold societies together across the world, billions of strong and determined women constitute the glue that holds societies in crisis together and the rock on which values are built. Often, these are ordinary women who become extraordinary simply because they persevere day after day, doing the things that they believe need doing. Mostly, what drive them are the examples of their mothers and grandmothers and their desire to do the best for their children. A new book, BURNING BRIGHT: Extraordinary women of KwaZulu-Natal, celebrates 12 such women from KwaZulu-Natal, one of South Africa’s largest and most rural provinces.

KwaZulu-Natal, on the east coast of South Africa, is a province of a thousand hills and valleys that has been ravaged for decades by apartheid’s underdevelopment, poverty and HIV/AIDS. It is also the home of the proud Zulu nation and probably best known for fearsome Zulu warriors of the past and proud men of the present. Yet BURNING BRIGHT proves that KwaZulu-Natal is also home to courageous and compassionate women whose stories must be told.

The book combines the sensitively written stories of these women with rich imagery. Dramatic, full-page portraits of the women’s faces combine with photographs of their hands to capture the essence of what each woman is. In each chapter evocative landscapes, ‘local colour’ photographs and old personal snapshots open a window onto the diverse parts of KwaZulu-Natal where the women grew up. A map shows where the childhood homes are.

BURNING BRIGHT is an affirmation of the positive way of life that manifests itself in the stories of these women. All the stories show a pervasive sense of community; a rootedness in the soil of this province, the key role played by mothers, grandmothers and schools in instilling solid values; the impact of apartheid on women’s lives and their dreams for their country’s and children’s future.

The backgrounds of the women are diverse. Among them is Anna Cele, a feisty, big-hearted domestic worker; Devi Rajab, newspaper columnist and psychologist; Nozizwe Madlala-Routledge, principled politician; Ntsiki Biyela, South Africa’s first black woman wine-maker and 2009′s Winemaker of the Year; Leona Theron, the country’s first black woman judge and Peggy-Sue Khumalo, former Miss South Africa and now investment banker. They also represent the different races that make up the province’s rich cultural ‘mixed masala’. Most of the women are Zulu, but mixed race ‘coloured’, Indian and white women are included. Together, their stories paint a picture of rich, diverse childhood experiences across KwaZulu-Natal.

Virtually all of these women have overcome enormous challenges to get to where they are today. What is extraordinary, and what makes them true role models, is their ability to persevere. Winemaker Ntsiki Biyela sums it up in her story: ‘I have walked and fallen, and the important thing is to stand up and start again. I believe that that is what a role model is. There is always a chance that I’ll fall again, but if I can get up afterwards that’s okay.’

One of the most fascinating aspects of the book is the strong common threads and shared values that connect the women’s stories. Each story also has three distinct sections, written in different voices, which provide complementary perspectives on who these women are and what moulded them. The stories open with the author’s perspective on the specific woman and what makes her extraordinary. Next each woman tells her own story in her own words, sharing her dreams and reflecting on the influences that made her what she is. Finally the story takes readers into diverse corners of KwaZulu-Natal to visit the places where each woman comes from.

For Wilna Botha as the author, these visits to the childhood homes of the twelve women, scattered across the entire KwaZulu-Natal, was the most rewarding part of writing this book. She explains: ‘I came to KwaZulu-Natal having lived on the starker plains of the North-West Province, the Free State and Gauteng. Maybe that is why I was continuously overwhelmed by KwaZulu-Natal’s dramatic landscapes as we drove across countless hillsides and dropped down into many valleys while searching for the childhood homes of the women in this book. This book is also a tribute to this extraordinary province of hills, valleys and rich Zulu culture.

THE AUTHOR – Wilna Botha is a former investigative journalist, communications specialist, researcher and college lecturer. In the 1980s and 1990s she won national awards as South Africa’s medical journalist of the year, as runner-up to education writer of the year and for health reporting. Since 1993 she has contributed to rural development across KwaZulu-Natal as director of MiET Africa and now Africa!Ignite. It is this experience that put her in touch with a number of extraordinary women who were the inspiration for this book.

THE PHOTOGRAPHER – Pippa Hetherington’s ability to tell a thousand-word story through a single photograph has achieved widespread recognition. Her work has been published in Fair Lady, Marie Claire, Real Simple and leadership. She has also undertaken projects for the Global Water Partnership, WWF- The Green Trust and 25:40. Pippa’s heart is in the visual image. Her work is deeply influenced by her travels through Africa and the environment and social development of South Africa. She intimately captures the soul of her subjects with empathy and lasting integrity.

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Helgaard Botha normally concentrates on property development matters but was touched by this moving book on the life’s of ordinary people in Kwa-Zulu Natal in South Africa. He now shares his time between Mauritius and South Africa. He has lived amongst the rolling hills of Kwa-Zulu Natal for the last 25 years and calls Durban his home. After years of endeavour he still hasn’t found a consistent and reliable golf swing. He has recently acquired the license to operate the renowned Fine & Country Estate Agency in Mauritius. Helgaard can be contacted at http://www.fineandcountry.mu

BURNING BRIGHT: Extraordinary Women of KwaZulu-Natal is available from leading South African bookstores and electronically through Kalahari.net at ZAR 228 (including VAT). For more information visit http://www.africaignite.co.za/

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